July 23: Be a Sacramental and Incarnational Listener

I recently received my doctoral diploma after four years of study, marking the end of 25-year journey of continuous education. Since committing to pastoral ministry in 1999, I have seamlessly integrated academic pursuits with ministerial responsibilities.

My academic journey began at York University in Toronto, followed by a five-year Master of Divinity program at McMaster University Divinity School in Hamilton, Canada, during which I served full-time as a pastor. My path then led me to the United States, where I dedicated two years to studying Christian Ministry and Wesleyan Studies at Asbury Theological Seminary in Wilmore, Kentucky. Finally, I completed a Doctor of Ministry program at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia, over the past four years. Balancing continuous education with full time ministry was a challenging endeavor, made possible only through God's grace.

In discussions about education, I often encounter differences in opinion. Some argue that education and college are not essential, asserting that one can achieve success without pursuing higher education. Others believe that higher education opens up greater opportunities. Both perspectives hold validity.

When I began my academic journey, my primary goal was to become a pastor. However, over the course of my extensive academic endeavors, I realized that education is not merely about accumulating degrees or achieving success. If that were the sole objective, the endeavor would have been meaningless for me. Instead, the process of education has illuminated the vastness of what I still do not know and has deepened my appreciation for the greatness of God. Believing that human knowledge or theological understanding can fully comprehend an omnipotent God is a grave mistake. For me, education has served as a tool for humility and self-awareness, revealing my true position before the Almighty GOD. It is through this spiritual wisdom that I understand: without God, I am nothing.

Another key lesson from my 25 years of study is the discipline of listening. Throughout countless lectures, whether I agreed with my professors and colleagues or not, I learned the importance of listening. Higher education is not merely about acquiring knowledge; it is about training oneself to listen, to be patient, and to commit. We must prioritize listening over speaking. Those who have truly encountered Christ in their lives are exemplary listeners. Often,

Christians feel compelled to address injustice and oppression by speaking out and proclaiming truth to defend the weak and marginalized. Many advocates for active service in the kingdom of God. While this proactive stance is commendable, it can sometimes overshadow the essential need for receptive listening.

There are two forms of receptive listening methodology, particularly emphasized through the transformation from sacramental listening to incarnational listening. Sacramental listening recognizes God’s presence not only in the hearing of the Word and in the Eucharist but also in everything within creation. Conversely, incarnational listening affirms that every creation is unique and has a distinct role in God's plan. Being a good sacramental and incarnational listener is vital. Those who have truly encountered God in their lives are exceptional listeners. We must listen to the pains and prayer requests of our beloved brothers and sisters, our children, our spouse, and our parents. Listening is a tool God has provided for our deep spiritual discipline and serves as a measure of our Christian maturity. I, too, will continue to practice listening to the joys and concerns of our congregation. Blessings to you all.

Yours in the Matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer!

Rev. Dr. Won Kim

The Lead Pastor of Thrive Church